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Planning a Pride Event: Behind the Scenes

Sun, 03 Aug 2025 19:51:23 GMT

Planning a Pride Event: Behind the Scenes

The Realities of Pride Planning

Pride events may burst with colour and celebration, but behind the glitter lies months of determination, negotiation, and resourcefulness — especially when planning a grassroots Pride like Torfaen Pride. If you've ever wondered how to organise Pride, it's a story of community commitment, overcoming barriers, and staying true to the ethos of inclusion.

This blog takes you behind the scenes of Torfaen Pride to show what it really takes to bring an event like this to life, and why every sticker handed out or song played on stage represents countless hours of unseen work.

Who Plans Torfaen Pride?

At the core of planning Torfaen Pride is a small but passionate team. In many ways, the lead-up to the event relies almost entirely on one person — Jamie — who often juggles logistics, communications, and bookings solo. For 2025, support came from Kat at Torfaen and Gwent Small Business Markets, who played a crucial role in liaising with local community councils, running our social media and planning and managing the community village and market area.

Every major decision and final approval, however, rests with the trustees of Club F.O.D Cymru , the charity responsible for organising Torfaen Pride. Their oversight ensures that the event aligns with the charity’s mission of providing safe, inclusive spaces for the LGBT+ community.

When Does Planning Begin?

Ideally, planning for Torfaen Pride starts right after the previous event ends. But the reality is more complicated. In 2025, delays due to a lack of funding and volunteers meant preparations got off to a late start. At one point, the event was at risk of being cancelled and almost had to be funded personally by Jamie’s redundancy pay — a testament to the passion and resilience behind this community-led event.

The Challenges of Grassroots Pride

The biggest hurdle by far is fundraising . Potential sponsors back out at the last minute, and national-level sponsorship remains a challenge in an area without large corporations. Even official grants, such as the Welsh governments grassroots pride funding, takes a full year to be processed and received.

On top of this, volunteer recruitment for planning is consistently difficult. While many are happy to support on the day, very few step forward for the months of planning needed behind the scenes.

Working with Local Authorities

Torfaen Pride collaborates with local authorities and statutory bodies through Safety Advisory Group meetings to ensure the event meets safety standards. However, the relationship hasn’t always been smooth.

In 2025, a late-stage decision by Torfaen Council to charge for the use of the park just two weeks before the event put additional strain on already tight finances. The team remains hopeful for a more supportive relationship in the future that better reflects the council’s duty to support its LGBT+ residents.

The Role of Volunteers

On the day, volunteers play a crucial role — not just in logistics, but in creating a sense of welcome. They meet and greet guests, hand out stickers, offer face paints, and collect donations. But more importantly, they offer a human connection - and we have to give a huge shout out and special mention to Katie who has been a star at every Torfaen Pride!

True to Club F.O.D Cymru’s ethos , engagement is everything. A simple “hello” from a volunteer can genuinely save a life. For many, it’s the first time they’ve felt seen or safe in a public LGBT+ space.

Accessibility and Safety

The event layout includes natural quiet zones for those needing a break from the crowds. Safety is a top priority: Comet Security provides on-site security, while St John Ambulance offers first aid support. Fire extinguishers are stationed throughout, and an Event Safety Management Plan governs all risk management.

How Club F.O.D Cymru Shapes Pride

As the organising charity, Club F.O.D Cymru influences every part of the event’s structure. Their commitment to safe, and inclusive spaces sets the tone. Performers, volunteers, and stallholders are chosen not just for popularity, but for alignment with these values.

This means drag artists on stage are as likely to engage in community work as they are to lip-sync or sing; volunteers are there to support wellbeing; and stalls include charities and support groups alongside local businesses.

Highlights from 2025

Despite the weather reducing attendance to around 3,500 (down from 5,000 the year before), the 2025 event had the best atmosphere yet . The addition of a second stage , run in partnership with Vitalize Radio , brought a new layer of community engagement and gave visibility to smaller acts and local voices.

The feedback was overwhelmingly positive, affirming that even through financial stress and last-minute hurdles, Torfaen Pride continues to grow as a beacon for grassroots LGBT+ pride. We're told that we are one of the largest free to enter prides in Wales so the challenges seem worth it!

Jamie Says:

"Planning Pride is exhausting, emotional, and unpredictable — but every person who smiles when they walk through those gates makes it worth it. Torfaen Pride is built from love, resilience, and the belief that community can change lives."

Final Thoughts

If you're wondering how to organise Pride, the answer is: with passion, grit, and community. While big-city Prides may have funding and teams of event planners, local Prides like Torfaen Pride rely on individuals, grassroots charity support, and the generosity of volunteers.

And yet, they often deliver something more meaningful: a celebration rooted in the real lives of LGBT+ people, in the places where visibility matters most.

So next time you attend a Pride, spare a thought for those behind the scenes. Especially in places like Torfaen, where every rainbow flag is a symbol of unseen labour and unwavering commitment to equality.

Torfaen Pride is organised by Club F.O.D Cymru. To learn more about our work, volunteer opportunities, or how to get involved in next year’s event, visit our website or contact us directly.

Drag in Wales: Past and Present

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Sat, 02 Aug 2025 17:11:16 GMT

A Celebration of Welsh Drag Culture

The Welsh drag scene is as diverse and vibrant as the country itself, rooted in both tradition and activism. From underground clubs to community stages, drag in Wales has grown into a multifaceted art form that uplifts LGBT+ voices, brings visibility to underrepresented identities, and celebrates queerness in all its glory.

Drag is not just performance — it's protest, it's storytelling, and it’s a lifeline for many who feel on the margins. Across Wales, drag artists have used their platforms to entertain, educate, and empower — often with humour, heart, and a healthy dose of glitter.

The Evolution of Drag in Wales

Historically, Welsh drag emerged in working men’s clubs, pubs, and cabaret settings, mirroring broader UK drag culture. Acts like Ceri Dupree made names for themselves on the circuit, blending comedy and impersonation with larger-than-life costumes.

One of the most iconic figures to rise from Wales is Tayce , who became a household name on RuPaul’s Drag Race UK Season 2. Her fierce runway looks and unapologetic confidence brought global attention to Welsh drag and inspired a new generation of performers.

Going further back, Stan Munro , originally from the South Wales Valleys, was one of the pioneering drag performers in the UK. Known for his sharp wit and cabaret style, Stan relocated to Australia but left behind a lasting legacy in Welsh entertainment.

Torfaen Pride and the Local Drag Legacy

Since its launch, Torfaen Pride — organised by Club F.O.D Cymru — has provided a platform for both rising and established Welsh drag artists. The main stage has hosted crowd favourites like Tammy Paxton , known for her powerhouse vocals and camp flair, and Fifi Fierce , celebrated for her high-energy performances and commitment to local LGBTQ+ causes.

Also deserving recognition is Dr Bev , a drag queen and community leader whose work supporting charities and local causes across Wales embodies the true spirit of Pride.

These performers aren't just there for the spotlight — they help shape a culture of celebration and inclusivity that runs through every element of Torfaen Pride.

Celebrating Drag Kings in Wales

Drag kings — performers who typically take on masculine personas — are an essential but often overlooked part of the Welsh drag scene. Artists such as Justin Drag have carved out space for masculine drag on stages across Wales, challenging norms around gender and performance.

These performers bring wit, swagger, and commentary on masculinity that resonates deeply with audiences looking for representation beyond the glittering femme.

Women Performing as Drag Queens

Drag is open to all, and Wales proudly celebrates the presence of women and AFAB performers in drag. These artists bring fresh perspectives to drag and continue to challenge traditional boundaries in the art form. As the scene evolves, so too does its embrace of diverse identities, including cis women, trans women, and non-binary people who perform as drag queens.

Rather than listing individuals without verified identities, we invite anyone with knowledge of Wales-based AFAB queens or female drag performers to get in touch so we can highlight their contributions in future features.

Club F.O.D Cymru’s Support for Drag Culture

As the organisers of Torfaen Pride, Club F.O.D Cymru has been instrumental in elevating drag talent in Wales. From hosting regular performances at their safe spaces to collaborating with community venues, they’ve worked to ensure that drag is accessible, celebrated, and inclusive.

Drag nights curated or supported by Club F.O.D Cymru often prioritise local talent, diverse line-ups, and opportunities for new performers to take the stage. This grassroots support is vital to nurturing a healthy drag ecosystem across Wales.

Jamie Says:

"Welsh drag isn’t just entertainment — it’s community. It’s protest with a punchline, glamour with grit. Whether it’s a drag king challenging gender roles or a seasoned queen singing her heart out on our main stage, every act is part of the story we’re telling at Torfaen Pride."

The Future of Drag in Wales

The Welsh drag scene is expanding in both visibility and creativity. Social media has allowed Welsh performers to connect with international audiences while staying rooted in local culture. Venues like The Golden Cross in Cardiff and community spaces like those hosted by Club F.O.D Cymru and of course Torfaen Pride continue to provide safe stages for expression.

With more performers exploring alternative drag forms, and more audiences embracing diversity, the future of the Welsh drag scene looks bold, beautiful, and brilliantly inclusive.

Whether you’re a lifelong fan or discovering drag for the first time, Wales has a rich tapestry of drag talent ready to dazzle — and Torfaen Pride will always be a place where they’re celebrated.

The Power of Chosen Families

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Fri, 01 Aug 2025 16:49:43 GMT

The Power of Chosen Families

For many in the LGBT+ community, chosen family isn’t just a phrase—it’s a lifeline. Unlike biological families, these self‑selected networks offer unconditional support, affirmation, and belonging, especially in places where local affirming spaces may be limited or where traditional family structures may not provide safety or acceptance.

What is a Chosen Family in the LGBT+ Context?

A Chosen Family LGBT network often includes friends, mentors, allies, and peers who come together to create a supportive community. These friendships fill the gaps many experience—be it emotional support, celebration, or sanctuary—from times when people feel isolated, misunderstood, or invisible.

Why Chosen Families Matter

Whether someone is newly exploring their identity or has long been navigating life in conservative surroundings, chosen family can provide the validation and solidarity vital to mental wellbeing. For LGBT+ individuals who may face rejection from biological relatives, the emotional bond and practical support of a chosen family can truly be life‑saving.

How Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru Support Chosen Families

While this blog isn’t intended to promote, it’s important to recognise how local efforts feed into the broader ecosystem that sustains chosen families:

Torfaen Pride , organised by Club F.O.D Cymru , provides a public space for connection and visibility. The event is volunteer‑led, community‑driven, and intentionally inclusive—welcoming those who may feel invisible at other events (such as people who are sober, older, disabled, or attending alone)
Club F.O.D Cymru operates year‑round to reduce social isolation across the Welsh LGBT+ community. Through local meet‑ups, talking circles, telephone befriending, mental health support, and safe social spaces, they help individuals build new connections and maintain existing ones
Club  F.O.D’s mission to reduce isolation and increase acceptance was explicitly recognised as contributing to social inclusion and mental wellbeing

These efforts, while not the focus of this post, reflect how infrastructure for chosen families is built from both celebratory moments and consistent support.

Real Impacts of Chosen Family Connections

Emotional resilience : Feeling supported when facing discrimination or difficult personal journeys—especially relevant in rural or isolated areas.
Community building : Chosen families often foster group identity and belonging: Pride-day groups, peer circles, or local social events offer shared experiences that forge strong bonds.
Mental health benefits : Club F.O.D Cymru’s befriending and support services illustrate how consistent care helps alleviate loneliness, anxiety, and marginalisation

How to Nurture Your Chosen Family LGBT Community

Create small, intentional circles : A regular meet‑up or video chat with affirming friends can make all the difference.
Participate in inclusive events : Even something like Torfaen Pride helps people connect, especially those attending solo or newly out.
Lean on befriending services : Volunteer‑run helplines and support groups—like those offered by Club F.O.D Cymru—can open doors to new, caring relationships.
Be generous with listening and presence : Offering your time or attention can help someone feel seen and safe; listening often matters as much as celebrating.

Last Words

A Chosen Family LGBT is more than symbolic; it is a powerful network of belonging and support for those whose experiences might otherwise feel isolated. A chosen family offers safety, validation, and community. And when local organisations like Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru invest in inclusive events and outreach, they help cultivate spaces where chosen families can thrive—quietly, consistently, and authentically.

By championing and building these bonds—through social events, befriending services, and inclusive celebrations—we help create a world where every LGBT+ person knows they belong, and can find the family they choose.

How Pride Supports Mental Health

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Thu, 31 Jul 2025 07:05:22 GMT

How Pride Supports Mental Health

Pride as More Than a Celebration

Pride is often seen as a parade of colour, music, and joy — but at its core, Pride is about visibility, community, and resilience. For many LGBT+ people, Pride events and community spaces are a vital part of supporting mental health and wellbeing, helping to combat isolation, stigma, and discrimination.

In 2025, the need for LGBT mental health support remains as strong as ever. Research from organisations like Stonewall and Mind Cymru shows that LGBT+ individuals are more likely to experience depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts compared to the general population. These disparities are often linked to rejection, minority stress, and the absence of safe, affirming spaces.

Pride — both as a movement and as local events like Torfaen Pride — plays a crucial role in providing the connection and visibility that can literally save lives.

Why Mental Health Support Matters for LGBT+ Communities

Living in a world that doesn’t always accept you can take its toll. Many LGBT+ individuals face rejection from family, workplace discrimination, or bullying during formative years. These experiences can have long-term effects, contributing to feelings of shame or isolation.

Support networks are essential — and that’s where Pride events and organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru step in. By creating safe, inclusive spaces where people are free to express who they are without fear, these initiatives act as a lifeline for mental wellbeing.

Torfaen Pride and Year-Round Support

While Torfaen Pride itself is an annual celebration, its impact goes far beyond one day in June. Organised by Club F.O.D Cymru, the event is built on the principle that connection reduces isolation. For some, Pride is the only day of the year when they feel truly visible — and that visibility can be transformative for mental health.

Club F.O.D Cymru backs this up with year-round activities, such as Talking Circles, alcohol-free events, and inclusive social gatherings. These are not just parties — they’re community spaces where people can talk openly about their challenges and feel supported.

The Importance of Safe Social Spaces

Access to safe social environments is one of the most effective ways to protect mental health. Community centres, LGBT+ venues, peer support groups, and inclusive social events all offer opportunities to form meaningful connections.

For those living in rural or conservative areas of Wales, these safe spaces are even more critical. Events like Torfaen Pride bridge this gap, giving people who might otherwise feel isolated a place to belong.

Spotlight: The Tidy Butt Talking Circle

One powerful example of mental health support in action is the LGBTQIA+ Talking Circle at Tidy Butt HQ in Sebastopol.

Held monthly, this Talking Circle is a safe and confidential space for people to connect, share, and be heard. Whether you’re struggling with identity, mental health, or just need to meet others who understand, the Talking Circle offers an affirming environment with peer support.

The next session is on Tuesday 12th August 2025 at 6:30 PM at Tidy Butt HQ (NP4 5BQ).

By collaborating with local venues like Tidy Butt HQ, Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru are helping to build a network of support that’s accessible, local, and welcoming.

The Role of Volunteers and Allies

Mental health support also comes from the people around us — volunteers, organisers, and allies. Those who give their time to support Pride events often create moments of joy, solidarity, and care that ripple out through the community.

Allies who listen, amplify LGBT+ voices, and speak up against discrimination are vital to creating safer, more inclusive environments. Whether you’re a straight friend marching at Pride or a parent attending a support group, your presence can make a profound difference to someone’s wellbeing.

Jamie Says:

"Pride is not just a party — it’s a lifeline. For many, seeing their flag fly or finding someone to talk to at a local event can make all the difference to their mental health. That’s why Torfaen Pride, Club F.O.D Cymru, and initiatives like the Tidy Butt Talking Circle are so vital."

How to Access LGBT Mental Health Support in Wales

There are a growing number of services available to help LGBT+ individuals facing mental health challenges:

Mind Cymru: Specialist support and information
LGBT Foundation (UK-wide): Helplines and peer support
Trans Aid Cymru: Support for trans and non-binary people
Local Talking Circles and social events such as those run by Tidy Butt

If you’re struggling, remember you are not alone. Pride and its community networks are here for you — year-round.

Final Thoughts

LGBT mental health support is about more than therapy — it’s about community, acceptance, and belonging. Pride events like Torfaen Pride play a unique role in providing these elements, while initiatives like Club F.O.D Cymru’s Talking Circles offer safe, supportive spaces all year long.

If you or someone you know needs support, consider attending a local event, reaching out to a support group, or simply showing up to celebrate Pride. Every act of connection counts.

LGBT Venues You Should Know in South Wales

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Wed, 30 Jul 2025 06:36:40 GMT

LGBT Venues You Should Know in South Wales

South Wales has long played a key role in the cultural and social life of the LGBT+ community in Wales. From vibrant city bars to grassroots pop-up events, queer venues in the region have provided safe, affirming spaces for people to connect, celebrate, and organise. But in a time of rising costs and social shifts, these spaces are increasingly under threat.

Whether you’re after a bustling night out, a quiet drink with chosen family, or an affirming space for self-expression, this guide to LGBT+ venues in South Wales spotlights the importance of queer spaces — and the people who keep them going.

Why LGBT+ Spaces Still Matter

LGBT+ venues are more than entertainment spaces. They’re safe havens for those coming out, gathering spots for community building, and launching points for activism. In rural and semi-urban areas, the importance of physical, in-person queer spaces is often even more pronounced.

At the heart of this ethos is Club F.O.D Cymru , the charity behind Torfaen Pride , which was set up to reduce loneliness and isolation within the LGBT+ community. From its unique LGBT+ Talking Circles to pop-up discos and online support networks, the charity is committed to ensuring community spaces — physical and emotional — remain open to all.

This mission mirrors the energy seen in venues across South Wales that continue to fight for visibility and survival.

Must-Know Gay Bars and LGBT+ Venues in South Wales

The Golden Cross – Cardiff

Arguably Wales’ most iconic gay pub, The Golden Cross boasts Victorian decor, regular drag nights, and a strong community vibe. It’s been a beacon for LGBT+ folks for decades, welcoming everyone from queer students to older community members. If you're new to Cardiff, this is the place to start.

Mary’s – Cardiff

A piano bar with a drag cabaret twist, Mary’s is fun, camp, and glamorous. Known for its themed cocktails, packed entertainment schedule, and open-door welcome, it’s a central fixture in Cardiff’s LGBT+ nightlife.

The Queer Emporium – Cardiff

A newer, daytime-focused venue with a different take on queer space. The Queer Emporium brings together LGBT+ businesses, creatives, and community organisers. It's more zine fair than nightclub, but that’s what makes it special — and a much-needed alternative to nightlife-dominated culture.

Eclipse Bar (formerly The Eagle) – Cardiff

Eclipse has revitalised the queer nightlife scene in Cardiff. Formerly known as The Eagle, this bar remains a focal point for the local LGBT+ community, hosting cabaret, karaoke, and special themed nights that draw people from across the Valleys and beyond.

The Lotus Lounge at Madam JoJo’s – Newport

While not exclusively an LGBT+ venue, The Lotus Lounge is a key space for parts of the community, especially those involved in fetish or alternative queer culture. It’s home to Leathermen Cymru events and provides an affirming, respectful space for those often marginalised even within mainstream queer nightlife.

Eagles – Swansea

Eagles is currently the only dedicated gay bar in Swansea , and a vital part of the city’s nightlife. With DJs, drag acts, and a fiercely loyal crowd, it offers a welcoming, all-inclusive space for both locals and visitors. It’s not just a venue — it’s a cornerstone of the Swansea LGBT+ scene.

Pop-Up Events in Torfaen – Pontypool & Beyond

Thanks to the tireless efforts of Club F.O.D Cymru , Torfaen has seen a wave of community-driven LGBT+ events, from Torfaen Pride itself to seasonal Drag Bingo , Talking Circles , trans-inclusive meetups , and community picnics . These events create space in areas where commercial LGBT+ venues simply don’t exist — and demonstrate what grassroots pride really means.

The Importance of Supporting Queer Spaces

Many people associate Pride with big parades, glitter, and crowds — but the real work often happens quietly, year-round, in our pubs, pop-ups, and community halls.

Spaces like Eagles and Eclipse, and events like those led by Torfaen Pride, provide lifelines for people who might otherwise feel invisible. Especially in a post-pandemic world where loneliness is surging and safe venues are closing, keeping queer spaces alive has become a matter of wellbeing, not just entertainment.

Club F.O.D Cymru is a leading example of how to tackle these issues with heart. Their community-led model supports not just LGBT+ people broadly, but those who are isolated, vulnerable, or living in areas without obvious queer infrastructure.

Jamie Says:

"There’s no one way to build a queer space — whether it’s a Cardiff nightclub or a picnic in Pontypool Park. What matters is visibility, safety, and joy. That’s what we stand for at Torfaen Pride, and that’s what we’ll keep showing up for, all year round."

Supporting Local Pride All Year Long

Want to support these spaces?

Visit and spend money in local venues.
Promote queer-owned businesses on social media.
Volunteer at or attend local Pride events.
Join or start your own community circles in your area.

Pride doesn't just happen once a year — and LGBT+ spaces don't maintain themselves.

The future of gay bars in Wales depends on how we all show up. And together, we can keep the doors open for the next generation.

Celebrating Bi Visibility Day

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Tue, 29 Jul 2025 09:55:27 GMT

Celebrating Bi Visibility Day

Every year on 23rd September , people around the world come together to mark Bi Visibility Day — a moment to celebrate, uplift, and acknowledge the bisexual community.

As we look ahead to Bi Visibility 2025 , this isn’t just about waving flags for a day; it’s about tackling persistent myths, validating real identities, and recognising the unique experiences of bisexual people year-round.

Why Bi Visibility Still Matters in 2025

Despite growing awareness of LGBT+ identities, bisexual people remain one of the most misunderstood and underrepresented groups within the community. Often stereotyped, overlooked, or wrongly labelled, bisexual individuals face distinct forms of bi-erasure — where their identity is dismissed or invalidated.

You may have heard phrases like:

"You're just confused."
"It’s just a phase."
"You have to pick a side."

These assumptions not only deny bisexuality as a valid orientation, but they also contribute to higher levels of anxiety, depression, and social isolation among bi people — particularly those who feel alienated from both straight and gay spaces.

That’s why visibility matters. And not just in name — but in action, in allyship, and in everyday inclusion.

What Is Bi Visibility Day?

First celebrated in 1999, Bi Visibility Day (also known as International Celebrate Bisexuality Day ) was created by activists in the United States who wanted to draw attention to the issues facing the bisexual community. Since then, it has grown into a global awareness day.

Stonewall explains why Bi Visibility Day remains so essential .

But visibility is about more than recognition. It’s about respect . About belonging . And about challenging the harmful narratives that erase or minimise bi experiences.

In 2025, as political landscapes shift and cultural conversations evolve, bisexuality remains radically powerful in its fluidity — pushing against rigid binaries and celebrating love, identity, and attraction in all their complexity.

Understanding the Bisexual Umbrella

Bisexuality isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s often described as attraction to more than one gender — but the exact experience can vary from person to person.

Many people who identify as:

Bisexual
Pansexual
Omnisexual
Polysexual
Or simply Queer

… might fall under the broader bisexual umbrella . What unites them is attraction beyond a single gender, and a shared need for spaces where their experiences are seen and respected.

Unfortunately, the lack of bisexual representation in media, health services, and education means that many people don’t see themselves reflected anywhere — even within the LGBT+ community.

This is why visibility is not just symbolic — it’s structural.

Bi Visibility in Wales

Across Wales, bi people are stepping forward, sharing stories, and shaping spaces — but there’s still a long way to go. While Pride events across the country do increasingly recognise bisexuality, specific representation and programming for bi individuals often remains limited.

In response to this, Torfaen Pride — organised by Club F.O.D Cymru — has been intentional about inclusion. Through its programming, visibility efforts, and community-led values, the organisation has worked to make sure that bi+ voices are not lost in the rainbow.

Whether that means flying the bisexual flag alongside others, amplifying local bi activists, or simply offering a safe, non-judgemental space where identity doesn’t have to be explained — the commitment to visibility is ongoing.

Club F.O.D Cymru, in particular, exists to reduce social isolation among LGBT+ people, especially those who may feel overlooked or marginalised. Their work includes talking circles, peer support, and sober-friendly events that welcome everyone under the LGBT+ umbrella , including those who are bi, pan, or questioning.

What Can You Do to Support Bi Visibility?

Being an ally to bisexual people isn’t about having all the answers — it’s about being willing to listen, learn, and challenge assumptions.

Here are some practical things you can do in the lead-up to Bi Visibility 2025 :

Educate yourself on the diversity of bi+ identities and experiences.
Believe people when they say they’re bisexual — regardless of who they’re dating.
Challenge bi-erasure when you see it in media, conversation, or policy.
Include bisexual narratives in LGBT+ discussions, not as a footnote, but as a central thread.
Support bisexual-led organisations, authors, and creators.

Most importantly: Don’t assume. Ask. Listen. Respect.

Why Bi Visibility 2025 Needs to Be Bigger Than a Day

Visibility days are important — but they should be starting points , not endpoints. For bisexual people in Wales and beyond, what’s needed is consistent inclusion:

In healthcare services that understand their risks and needs.
In schools that include bisexual identities in sex and relationships education.
In mental health support that recognises the unique challenges of bi erasure and stigma.
In representation that goes beyond stereotypes and offers real, complex, joyful depictions of bi lives.

Organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru are helping drive this shift by embedding inclusion into everything they do — not just in September, but year-round.

And events like Torfaen Pride are proving that small-town Pride can lead the way in centring diverse identities, building safe spaces, and making visibility real .

Final Thoughts

Bi Visibility 2025 isn’t just another awareness campaign — it’s a reminder that bisexuality is valid, powerful, and essential to the full picture of the LGBT+ community.

As we move forward, let’s make sure we’re not just seeing bi people — but hearing them, supporting them, and standing with them .

Because bisexual people exist. They always have. And they always will.

What Is Club F.O.D? A Safe Space for All

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Mon, 28 Jul 2025 14:35:10 GMT

What Is Club F.O.D? A Safe Space for All

A Movement Rooted in Community and Inclusion

In the heart of Wales, where valleys meet resilience and identity meets celebration, there is a quiet but powerful movement transforming lives: Club F.O.D Cymru . Known for its unwavering focus on inclusion, visibility, and wellbeing, this volunteer-led initiative is more than just a support network — it’s the organisation behind Torfaen Pride itself.

As the founding group and driving force behind Torfaen Pride, Club F.O.D Cymru exists to ensure no one in the LGBT+ community is left behind, especially in communities where isolation, stigma, or lack of access might otherwise silence someone’s truth.

Club F.O.D: A Quick History

Originally formed in England as Club F.O.D (an abbreviation of “Friends of Dorothy” — a historic euphemism used in the LGBT+ community), the organisation began by hosting inclusive, sober-friendly social nights. These gatherings soon evolved into something far greater: a movement tackling social isolation head-on.

As the need grew for similar support across Wales, Club F.O.D Cymru was launched — bringing the organisation’s values of care, community, and inclusion to towns and valleys across the country.

And in 2023, it became the organisation behind the founding of Torfaen Pride — one of Wales’s newest Pride events, grounded not just in visibility, but in year-round community outreach.

What Does Club F.O.D Cymru Do?

At its core, Club F.O.D Cymru exists to offer unapologetically inclusive spaces where LGBT+ people can connect, find support, and be their authentic selves. But their work goes far beyond events.

Here are just some of the ways they support the Welsh LGBT+ community:

Organising Torfaen Pride : An annual celebration of inclusion, identity, and belonging — shaped by the community, for the community.
Social Events & Talking Circles : From local meetups to Promoting supportive group sessions organised by other organisations, they create welcoming environments that are alcohol-optional and always judgment-free.
Mental Health Support & Signposting : Offering compassionate, informal support to those who may be struggling or feeling alone.
Volunteering Opportunities : Giving people a meaningful way to contribute to community life, often while gaining confidence and connection in return.
Training & Education : Partnering with local groups, schools, and businesses to improve LGBT+ awareness and inclusion.

What makes Club F.O.D Cymru different is that all of this is delivered by volunteers — people who believe that community care is radical , necessary, and powerful.

Why Their Work Matters in Wales

While major cities often host large-scale Pride events and have visible LGBT+ hubs, many areas of Wales still lack safe, affirming spaces — especially for those in rural communities, older LGBT+ people, and individuals who are neurodivergent, disabled, or otherwise marginalised.

Club F.O.D Cymru recognises that inclusion isn’t just about a flag once a year . It’s about showing up consistently, building relationships, and creating sustainable support networks.

Torfaen Pride, as one example, isn’t just a day of celebration — it’s the public face of an organisation that’s active throughout the year. From partnering with local councils to running wellbeing events and engaging in advocacy, Club F.O.D Cymru is building Pride from the ground up .

Torfaen Pride: The Flagship of F.O.D’s Welsh Work

Founded and organised by Club F.O.D Cymru, Torfaen Pride is a testament to what grassroots activism can achieve. It’s not just about colourful parades — although there’s plenty of joy involved. It’s about creating a space that’s genuinely inclusive, intergenerational, and accessible.

Torfaen Pride is:

Volunteer-led and community-driven.
Inclusive of families , disabled people, and sober attendees.
A reflection of local needs , not just national narratives.
Backed by care , with visible safeguarding and wellbeing at its heart.

Everything that happens at Torfaen Pride is guided by Club F.O.D Cymru’s mission: to reduce social isolation, increase visibility, and ensure no one is left behind.

Beyond the Rainbow: Creating Sustainable Safe Spaces

What sets Club F.O.D Cymru apart is the fact that it doesn’t stop at Pride. Their work continues 365 days a year, often quietly, behind the scenes:

A conversation that lifts someone out of loneliness.
A volunteer helping a young trans person feel seen.
A partnership with a local venue to improve access for disabled LGBT+ guests.

They are not waiting for permission to make a difference — they are doing it, every day, with compassion and creativity.

Why This Matters Right Now

Across the UK, LGBT+ rights are being questioned in public discourse. Transphobia is rising. Queer spaces are closing. It’s easy to feel discouraged.

That’s why organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru are essential. They remind us that change doesn’t always come from the top down. Sometimes, it comes from people with big hearts, modest resources, and unshakable belief in the power of community.

Their message is simple: everyone deserves to belong . Whether you’re young or old, out or questioning, rural or urban — you have a place here.

Final Thoughts

Club F.O.D Cymru is not just the organiser of Torfaen Pride — it’s a beacon of hope in Wales. Through its events, outreach, and advocacy, it’s building a Wales where LGBT+ people are seen, supported, and celebrated every day .

So, the next time someone asks “What is Club F.O.D?”, you can answer with pride:

It’s family.
It’s safety.
It’s visibility.
It’s Pride — made real.

Want to support real, community-led change in Wales? Get involved with Club F.O.D Cymru, volunteer at Torfaen Pride, or spread the word about the incredible work happening in our valleys.

You never know who needs to hear that they belong. ��

Inclusive Language: Why It Matters

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Sun, 27 Jul 2025 12:32:59 GMT

Inclusive Language: Why It Matters

Language has power. It shapes how we see the world and how the world sees us. For the LGBT+ community, inclusive language isn't just about being polite—it's about being recognised, respected, and safe. From everyday conversations to media headlines, the words we choose can affirm someone’s identity or erase it. And in 2025, with increased awareness of gender and sexual diversity, there's no excuse not to get it right.

This post explores why inclusive language matters in LGBT+ contexts, how we can all do better, and how organisations like Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru incorporate inclusive practices into their community work in Wales.

What Is Inclusive Language?

Inclusive language refers to words and phrases that respect and affirm all identities . In the LGBT+ context, that means avoiding assumptions about someone’s gender, sexual orientation, family structure, or lived experience. It means using terms that are accurate, empowering, and free from bias.

For example:

Saying “partner” instead of assuming “husband” or “wife”
Asking for someone’s pronouns rather than assuming them
Recognising that not all families look the same—and neither do all bodies, genders, or relationships

It’s a simple way of ensuring our communication reflects the real diversity of the people around us.

Why Does Language Matter to LGBT+ People?

For many LGBT+ people, language has historically been used to marginalise, stereotype, or dehumanise . Slurs, misgendering, and casual erasure can have lasting impacts on someone’s mental health and sense of belonging.

On the other hand, affirming language can:

Build trust in healthcare, education, and community settings
Foster inclusion in workplaces and public spaces
Reduce harm by avoiding microaggressions or miscommunication
Signal safety —especially for trans and non-binary individuals

Even small changes—like putting pronouns in your email signature or asking for someone’s name before making assumptions—can make a big difference.

According to guidance from Stonewall UK on why inclusive language matters , affirming someone’s identity through language can reduce discrimination and build trust.

Everyday Examples of Inclusive Language

Here are some practical, real-world swaps and tips:

Instead of “Ladies and gentlemen” Try “Everyone” or “Folks”
Instead of “Mum and dad” Try “Parents” or “Guardians”
Instead of “He/she” Try “They” (if pronouns unknown)
Instead of “Transgenders” (incorrect) Try “Trans people” or “Trans community”
Instead of “That’s so gay” (slur) Avoid entirely—unacceptable

Bonus Tip:

If you make a mistake, acknowledge it, correct it, and move on without over-apologising. Learning is a journey.

The Role of Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru

Both Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru prioritise inclusive language in their community engagement and public communications. Whether it's signage, workshop materials, or event announcements, care is taken to use terms that reflect the lived experiences of LGBT+ people across Wales.

At Torfaen Pride 2025 , for instance, inclusivity wasn’t just about who was invited—it was built into everything from stage announcements to social media captions. Similarly, Club F.O.D Cymru runs outreach initiatives that offer non-judgmental, welcoming spaces for individuals who may be navigating complex intersections of identity.

These organisations help model how language can be a tool for empowerment rather than exclusion.

How Institutions Can Lead by Example

Organisations—especially councils, schools, and healthcare providers—have a duty to use language responsibly. That includes:

Updating forms to include non-binary and other gender options
Using inclusive job titles and policies
Avoiding heteronormative assumptions in communications
Ensuring accessibility for those with intersectional identities (e.g. LGBT+ disabled people)

The Public Sector Equality Duty in Wales already demands fairness across protected characteristics, but going beyond compliance to genuine inclusivity is where true progress lies.

Wales and the Shift Towards Inclusive Communication

Wales has increasingly taken a progressive stance on LGBT+ inclusion , and language is a key part of that progress. From Welsh Government resources to local initiatives, there’s a growing effort to ensure that everyone feels seen and heard —regardless of their gender identity or sexuality.

Welsh Pride events—including Torfaen Pride—are not just about celebration, but education. Every banner, every speaker, every volunteer briefing is an opportunity to use language that uplifts rather than excludes.

How You Can Be Part of the Change

You don’t need to be an expert in queer theory to use inclusive language. You just need to be willing to listen, learn, and adapt . Here’s how you can get started:

Ask people for their pronouns and respect them
Avoid making assumptions based on appearance or name
Stay open to feedback if someone corrects your language
Use inclusive language in your workplace or community roles
Support organisations like Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru who model best practice

Final Thoughts

Inclusive language isn't about being "politically correct"—it’s about treating people with basic dignity and respect . For LGBT+ people, the words we hear and the ones used about us can be the difference between feeling seen or feeling invisible.

As Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru continue their vital work across Wales, let’s each play our part in creating spaces—online and offline—where everyone can thrive.

Because words matter. And when they’re inclusive, they make the world better for all of us .

Spotlight on Welsh LGBT Activists

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Sat, 26 Jul 2025 13:30:23 GMT

Shining a Spotlight on Welsh LGBT+ Activists

The story of LGBT activism in Wales is as rich and resilient as the communities it represents and is a tapestry woven with courage, creativity, and relentless dedication.

Rooted in both landmark campaigns and everyday acts of courage, activism in Wales has taken many forms—legislative reform, creative expression, visibility, education, and solidarity. Welsh LGBT activists have been vital in challenging discrimination and building more inclusive communities and continue to shape a more inclusive society. This article celebrates those trailblazers—past and present—who have shaped the rights, recognition, and wellbeing of LGBT people across Wales and reflects on how community work—like that of Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru —builds on this legacy.

Hannah Blythyn MS – Pioneer in Politics

As one of the first openly lesbian Members of the Senedd, Hannah Blythyn has been a prominent advocate for LGBT+ equality in Welsh politics. Since her election in 2016, she has championed inclusive policymaking and spoken out against discrimination. Blythyn’s visibility has helped break down barriers, particularly in rural and traditionally conservative parts of Wales. Her ongoing support for community Pride events highlights her understanding that representation must go beyond Parliament—it must reach people where they live.

Shash Appan – Trans Rights & Racial Justice

Shash Appan is a leading voice for trans rights in Wales. A dedicated campaigner and public speaker, she consistently raises awareness of the challenges trans people face—especially those from marginalised communities. Her activism focuses on healthcare access, safety, and the need for intersectionality in all LGBT+ advocacy. By amplifying community voices and pushing for systemic change, Shash has inspired a new generation of activists across Wales to stand up for trans equality.

Selena Caemawr – Neurodiversity and Trans Empowerment

Selena Caemawr is a non-binary poet, performer, and grassroots organiser who has worked tirelessly to create safe, inclusive spaces for queer and neurodivergent people. Through creative writing projects, spoken word events, and peer support, they have built a sense of belonging for many who often feel excluded. Selena’s work highlights the need for community-based activism that is intersectional and compassionate. Their visibility has contributed to richer, more inclusive narratives within Welsh LGBT culture.

Berwyn Rowlands – Celebrating Queer Welsh Culture

Berwyn Rowlands is a pioneering force behind LGBT+ cultural representation in Wales. As the founder of a major Welsh LGBT+ film festival, he has promoted queer storytelling and built platforms for underrepresented voices. His belief that film, art, and media are powerful tools for social change has reshaped public perceptions and helped dismantle stereotypes. Rowlands' work shows that activism can be creative, collaborative, and deeply cultural.

Lisa Power MBE – Trailblazer of LGBT Policy

Lisa Power’s activism spans decades, from her early work with the Terrence Higgins Trust to her efforts supporting equality legislation. She has contributed to countless campaigns on HIV awareness, LGBT+ education, and policy reform. In Wales, she continues to work with organisations to ensure that queer histories are preserved and shared. Her commitment to embedding LGBT+ stories into public memory ensures that future generations understand the sacrifices and victories of the past.

Hefina Headon – Historical Ally and Bridge-Builder

Though not LGBT+ herself, Hefina Headon’s legacy reminds us of the importance of true allyship. During the miners’ strike of 1984–85, she defended and welcomed LGBT+ activists who had travelled to support the miners, helping forge a powerful alliance between marginalised communities. Her story, made famous through the film Pride, remains an enduring example of how solidarity can transcend identity. Hefina’s courage and compassion are remembered as part of the broader Welsh movement for justice and equality.

How Their Work Connects Locally

While national figures like Blythyn and Power are pivotal, activists continue to shape Wales from every corner. Local advocacy and community care remain the backbone of inclusion.

Local Impact – Community Activism in Torfaen

While national figures receive the spotlight, much of the most meaningful change happens at grassroots level. In Torfaen, the success of Torfaen Pride is proof of what community-driven activism can achieve. Established in 2024, it has grown quickly into a visible, inclusive, and family-friendly celebration. Organised entirely by volunteers, including members of the LGBT+ community, it offers a space for education, joy, and representation. Events like this demonstrate that activism is not just about protest—it’s about presence, unity, and care.

Club F.O.D Cymru – Combating Social Isolation

Activism doesn’t end when the banners come down. Club F.O.D Cymru works all year round to tackle social isolation among LGBT+ people across Wales. From peer support groups and coffee mornings to safe-space events, the group is helping to build resilience, visibility, and connection in often-overlooked communities. Their work complements public-facing campaigns by focusing on wellbeing behind the scenes—ensuring that no one is left behind in the push for progress.

Why These Activists Matter in 2025

Each spotlighted figure brings a unique strength:

Hannah Blythyn leverages policy to promote equality.

Shash Appan brings intersectional advocacy and trans visibility.

Selena Caemawr blends neurodiversity and trans identity in creative activism.

Berwyn Rowlands demonstrates cultural activism through film and arts.

Lisa Power shapes structural and public education.

Hefina Headon illustrates the power of solidarity across movements.

They demonstrate that activism in Wales includes policy, protest, art, history, and local community action—all working together.

Final Reflection

In highlighting LGBT Activists Wales , we celebrate those who have led movements, transformed laws, and used creativity to bring people together. But equally powerful is the continued community work at local level—such as the intentional, volunteer-led events created by Club F.O.D Cymru, and the doors opened by Torfaen Pride.

Together, national leaders and grassroots organisers ensure that Pride in Wales remains vibrant, inclusive, and meaningful. Their legacy is not only visible in legislation, but in every friendly greeting, accessible event, and safe space built across the valleys.

Together, their efforts are helping to build a Wales where everyone can live with dignity, pride, and purpose.

How to Be an Ally to the Trans Community

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Fri, 25 Jul 2025 11:08:01 GMT

Trans Allyship: How to Be a Better Supporter in 2025

Trans allyship isn’t a label—it’s a commitment. It’s about taking consistent, informed, and compassionate action to support transgender and non-binary people in their daily lives. Whether you’re at work, in your social circle, or participating in community events like Torfaen Pride, allyship means listening, learning, and standing up against injustice.

In this guide, we explore practical ways to practise meaningful trans allyship, not just during Pride Month, but every day. Along the way, we acknowledge the broader work happening in Wales—including through inclusive initiatives by Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru —while keeping the spotlight on the actions that truly define an ally.

1. Educate Yourself Without Expecting Others to Teach You

Being an ally begins with self-education. If you're new to understanding gender identity, start with the basics: the difference between sex and gender, what non-binary means, and the challenges faced by the trans community. Read books, listen to podcasts, and follow trans-led media.

It’s not up to trans people to explain everything. Taking the initiative to learn shows respect, and it ensures that your allyship isn’t built on assumptions or stereotypes.

2. Use and Respect Pronouns

Pronouns aren’t just words—they’re an expression of identity. If someone tells you their pronouns, use them. If you're not sure, it's okay to ask politely or simply share your own to normalise the conversation. For example, “Hi, I’m Jamie and I use he/him pronouns.”

Avoid misgendering or using someone's old name (known as deadnaming). If you slip up, briefly correct yourself and move on—what matters is your willingness to do better.

3. Listen Without Centring Yourself

Being a good ally means knowing when to speak up—and when to step back. Listen carefully when trans people share their experiences. Resist the urge to compare it to your own or offer quick solutions. Sometimes, the most supportive thing you can do is simply hold space and validate someone else’s reality.

Allyship is grounded in humility. Let trans people lead their own narratives, and amplify their voices rather than replacing them with your own.

4. Challenge Transphobia Wherever It Occurs

Transphobia isn’t always loud or obvious. It can appear as jokes, microaggressions, or dismissive language. Speak up when you hear something harmful, even if it makes you uncomfortable.

Whether you’re in a workplace meeting or at a family gathering, your silence sends a message. Trans allyship means being prepared to use your privilege and your platform to protect others—even when it’s difficult.

5. Make Everyday Spaces More Inclusive

You don’t need to organise a rally to make a difference. Small actions count. If you run a business, include gender-neutral toilets. If you host events, ensure registration forms and name tags allow for people to self-identify. If you’re a teacher, include trans figures in the curriculum.

Inclusive spaces benefit everyone. Community events like Torfaen Pride demonstrate how thoughtful design—quiet zones, clear signage, and accessible toilets—can make all the difference for those who often feel excluded or unsafe.

6. Support Trans Inclusion in Community and Culture

It’s not enough to invite trans people into spaces—you must also create room for them to shape those spaces. Make sure trans voices are represented in leadership roles, decision-making processes, and public platforms.

Organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru lead by example, focusing on accessible, inclusive programming that reduces social isolation and brings people together from across the LGBT+ spectrum. That level of care reflects allyship in action—practical, visible, and accountable.

7. Recognise That Trans People Face Disproportionate Challenges

Trans people—especially trans women, and particularly those of colour—face increased risks of violence, homelessness, unemployment, and discrimination. In rural areas of Wales, access to trans-inclusive healthcare and support services remains patchy at best.

Understanding these barriers is part of being an ally. It’s what drives meaningful support: volunteering with charities, donating to emergency funds, or simply checking in on a trans friend who may be struggling.

8. Be Visible in Your Support

Visibility matters. Whether you’re wearing a pronoun badge, flying a flag, or attending a local Pride event, your presence sends a message. It lets others know that they’re not alone—and that you are someone they can trust.

At community events like Torfaen Pride, trans people and their allies walk side-by-side. These moments show that Pride is still a protest, still political, and still needed. When you show up with integrity, it encourages others to do the same.

9. Don’t Make Allyship About You

Allyship is not about being congratulated. It’s not about social media posts or virtue signalling. It’s about action, consistency, and the willingness to accept criticism without becoming defensive.

If a trans person offers feedback, take it seriously. Listen, learn, and adjust. No one is a perfect ally—but we can all strive to be better ones.

10. Keep Going—Even When It’s Quiet

Trans allyship isn’t a one-off gesture or a Pride Month initiative. It’s lifelong work. It continues after the parades, after the hashtags, and after the headlines.

Whether you're signing petitions, challenging policies, supporting trans creatives, or helping out at an event like Torfaen Pride, remember: it all adds up. And the impact goes further than you know.

Jamie Says:

“Being an ally isn’t about grand gestures—it’s about small, everyday actions that add up to real change. If you show up, speak up, and listen with intent, you’re already making a difference.”

Conclusion

Trans allyship isn’t a badge you wear—it’s a practice you live. It means being present, being consistent, and being willing to do the work without applause. You don’t need to be perfect; you just need to start.

At Torfaen Pride and through the year-round efforts of Club F.O.D Cymru, we’ve seen that small acts of support can blossom into powerful movements. So whoever you are, wherever you’re from, and whatever stage you’re at—there’s a place for you in this journey. And the time to begin is now.

The History of Pride in Wales

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Thu, 24 Jul 2025 05:40:27 GMT

The History of Pride in Wales

Pride in Wales has a rich and deeply emotional history—one that continues to unfold across the hills, valleys, cities, and towns of our nation. While many associate Pride with glitter, parades, and parties, its story in Wales is about resilience, representation, and the quiet but powerful progress made in everyday communities.

Over the decades, Wales has seen a transformation from underground meetups and whispered alliances to public celebrations like Pride Cymru in Cardiff and now newer events like Torfaen Pride. This blog post traces the history of Pride Wales and highlights the growing legacy of grassroots-led movements like Club F.O.D Cymru , who continue to shape a future where every LGBT+ person feels included, seen, and safe.

Early Beginnings in Cardiff

The earliest records of public LGBTQ+ demonstration in Wales trace back to Cardiff in the mid-1980s, when small marches were held along Queen Street. These events were led by students and local activists—brave individuals who risked safety and employment to demand visibility and equality. At a time when Section 28 and societal stigma loomed large, these gatherings were acts of protest and hope.

Out of this early momentum, Cardiff Mardi Gras was born in 1999. It quickly gained traction and by 2010, evolved into what we now know as Pride Cymru —a celebration that draws tens of thousands of people each year. From protest to festival, Cardiff’s journey set the foundation for Pride in Wales.

Spreading the Message: Swansea, Wrexham, and the Local Pride Revolution

As confidence grew, the Pride movement extended beyond Cardiff. In 2008, Swansea Pride launched with “Pink in the Park”—a simple yet powerful event that showcased the city’s commitment to inclusivity. It soon developed into a larger weekend of music, stalls, and visibility campaigns.

Elsewhere, towns like Wrexham , Barry , Llantwit Major , and Bridgend began to host their own Pride days, each shaped by their unique local identity. These smaller events reminded us that Pride doesn’t have to be big to be bold . They created space that was both affordable and accessible for LGBTQ+ people who couldn’t or wouldn’t travel to city-centre events, bringing Pride directly into their communities.

The Valleys Speak Up: Queer Histories Unearthed

One of the most exciting developments in recent years has been the uncovering of Wales’s rural queer past. Thanks to Welsh Government support and local volunteers, initiatives like LGBTQ+ Cymru have begun documenting the stories of LGBTQ+ people in the South Wales Valleys.

In Torfaen , this has resulted in the creation of the Gwent LGBTQ+ Timeline , which charts historical moments from the Middle Ages to today. From tales of same-sex couples living together in Merthyr, to stories of Edward II’s relationship with Hugh Despenser, and the impacts of World War II on queer lives—these archives are powerful reminders that LGBTQ+ people have always been here , even if history tried to erase them.

Torfaen Pride: A New Chapter in Pride History

In 2024, a new page was turned with the launch of Torfaen Pride . Held in Pontypool Park , it marked the first ever Pride event in the borough. It was free to attend, fully accessible, family-friendly, and focused entirely on community inclusion.

Unlike larger commercial events, Torfaen Pride was designed to feel personal. There were quiet zones for neurodiverse attendees, community stalls for local groups, a youth support hub, and food vendors serving all dietary needs. Thousands turned out, proving there was a real hunger for connection, celebration, and safe spaces.

The event returned in 2025, even bigger and more inclusive. Now, planning is already underway for 2026—and it’s clear that Torfaen Pride is here to stay.

The Year-Round Impact of Club F.O.D Cymru

Behind Torfaen Pride is Club F.O.D Cymru , a registered charity focused on reducing social isolation for LGBTQ+ people in Wales. Born from the UK-wide Club F.O.D movement, the Cymru branch became fully independent in 2024 with a distinctly Welsh identity and mission.

Their work includes:

Hosting regular LGBTQ+ nights in areas without regular safe spaces
Supporting LGBTQ+ youth and mental health through events and befriending programmes
Attending other Welsh Prides like Merthyr Pride with support and outreach teams
Planning for a permanent community hub in South East Wales

Club F.O.D Cymru’s philosophy is simple but powerful: No one should feel alone, invisible, or unsupported because of who they are. Through their leadership, Torfaen Pride has become more than an event—it’s the heart of a movement.

Why Rural Pride Events Are Critical

It’s a common misconception that LGBTQ+ people in the UK “have it easy now.” But for those living in rural or semi-rural areas like Torfaen, visibility still comes with risk . Fear of discrimination, lack of local resources, and social isolation remain very real.

That’s why rural Pride events matter. Torfaen Pride is one of the only times each year when LGBTQ+ people in the borough can gather visibly, safely, and joyfully. It offers a lifeline to those who might not otherwise feel seen or heard. It welcomes not only LGBT+ individuals, but also families, carers, young people, and older community members—making it a celebration for everyone .

Preserving the Legacy: Timelines, Archives, and Oral History

In tandem with growing Pride events, projects like “40 Years On” by Pride Cymru are collecting stories from the past four decades of activism and community building. These oral histories are being archived for future generations, ensuring that the movement is never forgotten.

Meanwhile, LGBTQ+ Cymru and local authorities have been working to build timelines that are county-specific , so that every part of Wales—including Gwent and Torfaen—can see their own local queer history reflected. These are now being used in schools, libraries, museums, and even as part of Torfaen Pride’s own educational programme .

The Welsh Identity and Queerness

Wales has a strong sense of cultural identity—defined by its language, music, history, and values of community (cymuned) and resilience . Pride in Wales draws upon this. It’s about more than rainbows; it’s about belonging.

Events like Torfaen Pride reflect Welsh values in action. They are intergenerational, bilingual, and grounded in the everyday realities of working-class communities. They are spaces where you’re just as likely to see grandparents waving flags as you are drag performers on stage. This balance of tradition and transformation is uniquely Welsh—and deeply powerful.

Jamie Says:

“Pride isn’t just a celebration—it’s a reflection of the journey we’ve taken as a community. Here in Torfaen, we’re proud to be adding our own chapter to the history of Pride in Wales. With every event, every conversation, and every act of solidarity, we are making history together.”

Honouring the Past, Building the Future

The History of Pride Wales is still being written. From the protests of the 1980s in Cardiff, to the colourful celebration in Pontypool Park, the spirit of Pride lives on in every town, every story, and every moment of connection.

And while we celebrate how far we’ve come, we know the work isn’t over. Thanks to organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru , the path ahead is full of hope, progress, and pride.

If you’ve ever marched, volunteered, donated, or simply showed up—you’re part of this story. And if you haven’t yet, now’s your moment.

Why Local Prides Matter in 2025

Wed, 23 Jul 2025 14:23:42 GMT

Why Local Prides Matter in 2025

More Than Just a Party

When we think about Pride, our minds often jump to glittering parades, rainbow flags, and joyous celebrations. But beneath the surface lies something far more powerful—especially at local level. In 2025, Local Pride Events UKcontinue to play a transformative role in the lives of LGBT+ individuals and their communities. These aren’t just one-day parties; they’re a vital part of the movement for equality, visibility, and inclusion.

For places like Torfaen, a borough without a large LGBT+ infrastructure, Pride becomes more than symbolic. It becomes necessary. That’s why Torfaen Pride, founded and powered by Club F.O.D Cymru , represents a growing shift in how we define Pride - not just as a national spectacle but as a local lifeline.

So why do local Prides still matter in 2025? Let’s break it down.

1. Local Pride Creates Grassroots Change

National events like London Pride are important, but they often cater to large city audiences and are, by nature, distant from many LGBT+ people’s everyday lives. Local Pride Events UK, by contrast, are embedded within their communities. They are run by locals, for locals, and are often the only time and space where visibility is safely and publicly embraced.

In Torfaen, Pride is not a corporate showcase. It’s a community-built celebration that encourages LGBT+ people in South Wales to be visible, supported, and safe. Organised by Club F.O.D Cymru, the event focuses on the people it serves, not just the rainbow branding. It is activism in action—volunteer-led, inclusive, and fiercely proud.

2. Visibility Matters—Especially in Smaller Towns

Pride is about visibility, and that’s still vital in 2025. For those in rural or semi-rural areas, seeing a Pride flag waving in your local park—like Pontypool Park during Torfaen Pride—can be life-changing. For young people still discovering their identity, or for older generations who may never have felt safe coming out, these events show that they’re not alone.

In Wales, where some LGBT+ people still report feeling isolated or marginalised, Torfaen Pride serves as a beacon of hope. It proves that queer joy isn’t confined to cities - it can thrive in valleys, towns, and villages too.

3. Pride Is Still a Protest

Let’s not forget that Pride began as a protest. In 2025, with a continued rise in hate crimes, especially against trans individuals, local Pride events play a critical role in pushing back.

These aren’t apolitical celebrations—they are declarations of presence in areas that may not always feel welcoming.

Club F.O.D Cymru understands this. That’s why our team works year-round to tackle issues like LGBT+ discrimination, mental health, and loneliness, ensuring that Pride is part of a wider support system—not a one-off event.

By hosting Torfaen Pride in a family-friendly, accessible format, we make sure everyone feels welcome - while still reminding the public that equality hasn’t been won just yet.

4. Supporting Local LGBT+ People Where It Matters

One of the most overlooked reasons local Prides matter is this: they’re often the only form of LGBT+ support in the area. In places like Torfaen, where no permanent LGBT+ centre yet exists, Pride becomes a surrogate community hub—if only for a day.

But that’s changing.

Club F.O.D Cymru is making efforts to establish a permanent, year-round LGBT+ hub in South East Wales. This would allow for support groups, befriending programmes, youth services, and crisis intervention—all built on the foundations laid at events like Torfaen Pride.

When you attend a local Pride, you’re not just waving a flag. You’re backing the infrastructure that keeps people alive and thriving.

5. Pride Helps Combat Social Isolation

Social isolation remains a serious issue, especially for older or rural LGBT+ individuals.

Many still live without a support network, fearful of discrimination or too far removed from traditional gay venues.

Club F.O.D Cymru exists to address exactly that. Our mission, "To ensure no one is left alone with nowhere to go and no one to talk to," underpins every event we organise - including Torfaen Pride.

From providing sensory quiet zones at Pride events to running social meet-ups and club nights throughout the year, Club F.O.D Cymru focuses on connection. And in doing so, we create spaces where isolation is replaced by inclusion.

6. Empowering Youth with Role Models and Support

For LGBT+ youth, local Prides are about more than celebration—they are moments of critical affirmation. Attending your first Pride can be life-affirming. Seeing adults living their truth, openly and proudly, provides representation that many schools or families still don’t offer.

Torfaen Pride, as part of Club F.O.D Cymru’s wider outreach, ensures our events are intergenerational and youth-friendly. Whether it’s through accessible language, family zones, or educational stalls, these events aim to uplift the next generation of LGBT+ individuals with confidence and pride.

7. It’s Not Just About One Day

The success of Local Pride Events UK isn’t measured by crowd size or sponsorship logos - it’s measured by impact. That’s why Torfaen Pride works so well: because it’s not isolated.

It’s part of a bigger community effort being quietly led by Club F.O.D Cymru behind the scenes.

Our team:

Runs events like LGBT+ Nights across South Wales
Hosts public engagement activities such as community surveys and forums
Offers volunteering opportunities for local people of all backgrounds
Supports initiatives like Men’s Mental Health Wales, Women’s Wellbeing groups, and LGBT+ befriending schemes

In short, local Pride is the gateway—but it’s the year-round community that sustains the movement.

8. Local Events Build Safer Communities

Local Prides also help build stronger, more cohesive communities. By inviting allies, families, businesses, and neighbours to celebrate together, events like Torfaen Pride foster empathy and education. They create environments where people can ask questions, show support, and learn from each other.

In 2025, this is more important than ever. With LGBT+ people still facing harmful narratives in mainstream media, real-life human interaction is essential to dismantling prejudice.

Jamie Says:

“People sometimes assume Pride has done its job - but that’s only true if you’ve never felt invisible. Local Prides like ours in Torfaen exist for everyone still waiting to be seen. They’re not just events. They’re lifelines.”

How You Can Support Local Pride Events UK

Attend Your Local Pride
Your presence matters. Torfaen Pride happens each June—and it’s free to attend. Bring your family, your friends, and your flag.

Volunteer with Club F.O.D Cymru
From stewarding events to helping with outreach or admin, there are roles for everyone. Your time and skills can make a difference.

Donate or Fundraise
Local Prides are often underfunded. Consider a donation or a fundraising event to help keep them going year after year.

Spread the Word
Use your voice. Share blog posts like this one. Invite people to attend Pride. The more visibility we create, the more support we grow.

Final Thoughts

Pride is not just a party. Not in 2025. Not in Torfaen.

It’s a protest, a celebration, a support system, and a movement—all rolled into one. And when done locally, Pride has the power to reach people in ways national campaigns can’t.

That’s why Local Pride Events UK—like Torfaen Pride, powered by Club F.O.D Cymru—still matter so deeply.

Because for many people, it’s not about waving a flag.

It’s about finally having a space to be themselves.

Pride in Wales: Celebrating LGBT Communities Across the Country

jamie.wake@clubfod.org.uk (Jamie Wake) — Tue, 22 Jul 2025 12:58:11 GMT

Pride in Wales: Celebrating LGBT+ Communities Across the Country

From the bustling streets of Cardiff to the rolling hills of Torfaen, Pride in Wales is more than a calendar event—it’s a movement. A celebration. A moment for communities to stand tall, be seen, and demand equality. But what makes Pride Wales truly special is its diversity. This isn’t just one event or one organisation. It’s a tapestry of local efforts, grassroots champions, and bold, inclusive celebrations woven across the country.

In this post, we explore the growing significance of Pride in Wales—how it reflects the heart of our LGBT+ communities, why local Prides like Torfaen Pride matter more than ever, and how groups such as Club F.O.D Cymru are transforming visibility and inclusion from the ground up.

The Evolution of Pride in Wales

Wales has a long-standing history of activism and community solidarity. While Pride Cymru in Cardiff remains the country’s largest and best-known Pride celebration, it no longer stands alone. Over the past decade, towns and valleys across Wales have launched their own events to ensure that representation isn't limited to capital cities or urban centres.

From Newport and Swansea to Llandrindod Wells and Wrexham , communities have come together to amplify the voices of those too often unheard—especially in rural and semi-rural areas where LGBT+ visibility can still be a challenge.

In Torfaen, the introduction of its own local Pride has helped bridge the gap between national conversations and local action. Held in Pontypool Park , this Pride embodies the spirit of Welsh resilience, unity, and celebration.

Why Local Pride Events Matter

While large-scale events like Pride Cymru play an important national role, it’s often the local Prides that create lasting grassroots impact . In Wales, where transport links and access to services vary significantly, having a Pride close to home means that:

LGBT+ people and allies can celebrate safely in their own communities
Local councils and businesses are encouraged to publicly show support
People in more isolated areas can access resources and networks
Events reflect local culture, needs, and history

Torfaen Pride, for example, was founded with the belief that “Pride should belong to everyone—especially those in places it often bypasses.” By combining community-led planning with inclusivity at its core, it has grown into one of the most authentic Welsh Pride events, free from commercial pressures and rooted in real-life stories.

Club F.O.D Cymru and the Importance of Ongoing Visibility

The success of Pride Wales doesn’t rest solely on annual events. Visibility, advocacy, and support must be year-round commitments , and that’s where organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru play a vital role.

Club F.O.D Cymru works to reduce social isolation among LGBT+ people in Wales through:

Peer-led social spaces that are alcohol-free and welcoming to all
Community outreach to reach those disconnected from traditional support networks
Collaborative partnerships with Pride organisers to ensure inclusivity and accessibility

Both Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru recognise that intersectionality matters . Many people within the LGBT+ community also live with disability, are carers, face economic hardship, or experience marginalisation due to race or faith. Pride in Wales must reflect all of these realities—not just the rainbow headline.

Wales’ Pride Calendar: A Growing Movement

Pride Wales is no longer just about one or two flagship events. The calendar is expanding, and each new addition brings something unique.

Here are some of the key events helping to shape the Welsh Pride landscape:

Pride Cymru (Cardiff): A nationally recognised event featuring parades, performances, and political engagement
Swansea Pride: Vibrant and inclusive, with strong student and community backing
Wrexham Pride: A growing northern voice for representation in rural and bilingual areas
Llanelli Pride: Intimate but powerful, with a focus on local youth
Torfaen Pride: Community-run, rooted in social change, and uniquely responsive to the needs of local residents

Each event complements the others, forming a decentralised yet united front for LGBT+ equality in Wales .

You can view our Wales' Pride Calendar here .

Representation in Rural Wales

It’s important to acknowledge that rural Wales has often been underrepresented in national LGBT+ discussions . But Pride in these areas isn’t new—it’s just been overlooked.

Torfaen Pride works hard to bring visibility to valleys and towns that are rarely spotlighted. It’s here, in smaller communities, that inclusive language, visibility, and allyship can make the greatest difference.

And the truth is, Welsh LGBT+ people don’t just live in Cardiff. They live in Blaenavon, Pontypool, Abertillery, and Cwmbran. They deserve Pride that speaks to them.

That’s why the work of Torfaen Pride, in collaboration with local authorities, youth services, and organisations like Club F.O.D Cymru, is so important. It ensures that no one is left out.

The Role of Education and Advocacy

Pride Wales is not just about celebration—it’s also a chance to:

Educate allies about inclusive language, trans rights, and the importance of visibility
Challenge institutions to do better—from councils to schools and healthcare providers
Amplify voices from underrepresented groups within the LGBT+ umbrella

Both Torfaen Pride and Club F.O.D Cymru run workshops, talks, and campaigns year-round—not just in June. Topics range from understanding pronouns to supporting LGBT+ youth in care, ensuring the conversation never ends when the stages are packed away.

Jamie Says:

“Pride in Wales isn’t something that happens once a year—it’s something we build together, all year round. At Torfaen Pride, we believe every community deserves a platform. And every person deserves to feel seen.”

Building the Future of Pride Wales

As Pride Wales continues to evolve, its future must remain authentically community-driven . That means:

Investing in smaller, local events
Listening to the voices of young people, elders, and trans folk
Ensuring accessibility, bilingualism, and intersectionality
Uplifting underrepresented areas like the South Wales Valleys

Pride is a protest. Pride is a party. Pride is progress. And in Wales, it’s growing stronger each year—thanks to people who care enough to show up, speak out, and make space for others.

Whether you're in the heart of Cardiff or on the hillside in Pontypool, Pride Wales belongs to you.

Proud to be You

If you believe in a Wales where everyone can live proudly and freely, support your local Pride. Come to Torfaen Pride. Volunteer. Share stories. Be an ally.

Because when we all show up for each other, we all rise.

�� Torfaen Pride takes place annually on the first Saturday in June at Pontypool Park.
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Frequently Asked Questions

Date Announced for 2025

Sat, 01 Jun 2024 14:16:00 GMT

Mark your calendars! Torfaen Pride 2025 will take place on the first Saturday of June—Wales' local Welsh Pride event returns to Pontypool Park.

2 Weeks to Torfaen Pride

Sat, 18 May 2024 14:16:00 GMT

LGBT+ charity, Club F.O.D, are not only pleased to announce our 2 week countdown to Torfaen Pride which takes place at Pontypool Park on 1st June 2024 but are also pleased to release our full mainstage line up.

‘Pride Release’: 2 week Countdown to Torfaen Pride sees Mainstage Lineup Released

LGBT+ charity, Club F.O.D, are not only pleased to announce our 2 week countdown to Torfaen Pride which takes place at Pontypool Park on 1st June 2024 but are also pleased to release our full mainstage line up.

The mainstage will be filled with local and national performers from midday until 7pm and hosted by Drag Performer, Tammy Paxton, will feature:

Torfaen Pride is free to enter family friendly event that celebrates Diversity in Torfaen.

Jamie Wake, charity CEO, said that “..For the LGBT+ community, Pride is a celebration of identity, diversity, and inclusion and for a significant number of the LGBT+ community, an individual’s first pride literally can change their life: it’s empowering and exhilarating to discover that there are people just like you..”

The event was officially announced in July 2023 following a motion presented by Cllr Giles Davies to Torfaen Council to acknowledge the LGBT+ community in the borough of Torfaen as well as to acknowledge support by the local authority for a pride event in Torfaen. The motion was passed unanimously.

The event will consist of main stage, market stalls, community stalls, food and drink stalls and a fun fair. A parade route is currently being considered.

The event kicks off pride month in Wales which runs throughout June and for Club F.O.D its also a double celebration as the weekend also marks their 5th birthday.

Jamie Wake, Club F.O.D CEO, added “It’s not just Torfaen Pride – it’s Torfaen’s Pride”. Highlighting that this has been adopted as the events tagline.

More details of the event can be found at torfaenpride.co.uk or on facebook @torfaenpride

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Club F.O.D is a registered charity that focuses on preventing and reducing social isolation for LGBT+ individuals

1 Month to Torfaen Pride

Sat, 27 Apr 2024 14:16:00 GMT

LGBT+ charity, Club F.O.D, are pleased to announce our 4 week countdown to Torfaen Pride which takes place at Pontypool Park on 1st June 2024.

Torfaen Pride is free to enter family friendly event that celebrates Diversity in Torfaen.

Jamie Wake, charity CEO, said that “ ..For the LGBT+ community, Pride is a celebration of identity, diversity, and inclusion and for a significant number of the LGBT+ community, an individual’s first pride literally can change their life: it’s empowering and exhilarating to discover that there are people just like you.. ”

The event will consist of main stage, market stalls, community stalls, food and drink stalls and a fun fair. A parade route is currently being considered.

There is still space available for traders and community groups to part of Torfaen’s first pride and enquiries can be made via marketplace@torfaenpride.co.uk.

The event kicks off pride month in Wales which runs throughout June and for Club F.O.D its also a double celebration as the weekend also marks their 5th birthday.

Performers currently announced include Drag Performers such as Lady M, Tammy Paxton, as well as vocalists such as Kyle Finn and Petra Evans and a performance by the Rock Choir. More acts are being announced over the next week.

Pride weekend will also feature Drag Bingo on Friday 31st May at the New Inn, Abersychan with details of pride parties to be announced.

Jamie Wake, Club F.O.D CEO, added “ It’s not just Torfaen Pride – it’s Torfaen’s Pride ”. Highlighting that this has been adopted as the events tagline.

Inaugral Pride Event Announced for Torfaen

Tue, 11 Jul 2023 14:16:00 GMT

We are over the moon to be able to now officially announce the date of the first Pride event to take place in Torfaen!

Yes you heard that right!

1st June 2024 will not only see the start of Pride month but it will also see the first pride event in the borough and will take place at the prestigious Pontypool Park.

Further details will be announced in due course.

Torfaen Council to Respond to Motion

Tue, 11 Jul 2023 14:16:00 GMT

On 18th July, Torfaen Council is being presented with a motion by Independent Councillor, Giles Davies, to acknowledge the LGBT+ community in the borough of Torfaen as well as to acknowledge support by the local authority for a pride event in Torfaen.

The motion reads:

This council notes that the LGBTQ+ community is an important part of our society and that it is important to support and celebrate diversity in all its forms.This council also notes that the LGBTQ+ community has faced significant challenges over the years, including discrimination and prejudice.This council therefore resolves to support LBGTQ+ Pride events across the borough in their communications including social media channels, highlighting the importance of Pride and why we must continue to support our LGBTQ+ family members, friends, colleagues, and constituents.This council also resolves to promote equality and diversity in all its forms and to work towards creating a more inclusive society for all.

The motion can be found on the Torfaen Council website (https://moderngov.torfaen.gov.uk/documents/s62541/LGBTQ%20Cllr%20Giles%20Davies%2018%20July%202023.pdf).

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